The most useful skills in every person's life. Vedas for men Self-discipline and focus

64 Arts a Man and a Woman Need to Achieve Perfection

Following the precepts of the Ancestors, let us remember the saying: “Trust in God, but do not make a mistake yourself.” Following this covenant, it is worth thinking about how you can change the world for the better by changing yourself for the better.
“A drop of practice equals an ocean of theory.”“and try in every way to consolidate the received information in practice, making it part of your lifestyle.

The VEDIC Heritage of Ancestors invites us to master 64 arts that make a man and a woman perfect. These arts cover almost all areas of human life and help the Body, Mind and Soul to successfully grow and develop.
Caring for the cultivation of the Soul has always been given great importance, because it is with its help that Man can comprehend the highest Truths of the world of the Gods. Consequently, cultivating the Soul is one of the main tasks of every Human incarnation in the material world.

Much of this Knowledge and experience is the same for men and women. The reasonableness of this approach is explained by the fact that on the path of its evolution, Zhiva (the True “I” of a living being) periodically changes male and female incarnations among people. Accordingly, there is a part of Knowledge and experience that is improved in each incarnation, regardless of gender, and there is a part specialized for the development of purely male or purely feminine qualities.
The following is a list of arts common to men and women, there are 41 of them:
1. The ability to be collected in any environment.
2. The ability to communicate with the Elements of Nature.
3. Possession and control of sexual power to embody highly spiritual Ancestors in their children.
4. Cleanliness.
5. Knowledge of love games and the art of lovemaking.
6. The ability to do various massages, maintain longevity and health.
7. Healing treatment (herbal medicine, spells, life force treatment, etc.).
8. Knowledge of the basics of astrology, favorable and unfavorable days.
9. The ability to reason, identify patterns and draw conclusions.
10. Knowledge of different characters.
11. The ability to express and subordinate your feelings.
12. The ability to give the greatest pleasure to your spouse.
13. The ability to express thoughts eloquently.
14. Knowledge of games that develop human thinking abilities.
15. Conducting business calculations, knowledge of measures of weight, volume, density, etc.
16. Knowledge of the tax system.
17. Ability to negotiate and conduct business.
18. The ability to recognize the qualities, abilities, states and intentions of a person by his gait, movements, gestures, facial expressions and posture.
19. The ability to solve dreams and interpret omens.
20. The ability to make building materials, utensils, household items and toys from clay.
21. Making fabrics and yarn from various materials, making and decorating clothes, knowledge of the hidden meaning of patterns and characteristics of products.
22. Preparation of paints, coloring of fabrics, yarn, clothing, utensils, knowledge of the basics of color science.
23. Cooking and preparing drinks.
24. Knowledge of the properties of stones and the ability to use them.
25. Knowledge of wild plants, their use in everyday life, nutrition and treatment with them.
26. The ability to obtain a good harvest in the field or garden, preserve it and make food preparations.
27. Knowledge of animal husbandry.
28. Communication and games with animals, training them, instilling in them the necessary actions.
29. The ability to recognize a person’s condition by his handwriting, to express himself beautifully and competently in writing.
30. The ability to convey, through painting and drawing, one’s state and perception of the surrounding world.
31. Arranging garlands, wreaths, bouquets and knowing their hidden meaning.
32. Knowledge of fairy tales, epics, legends, parables, proverbs, sayings and folk songs.
33. Writing poems, songs and performing them.
34. Knowledge of favorable and unfavorable musical rhythms, melodies and their reproduction on various instruments.
35. Ability to locate oneself on the ground.
36. Ability to juggle various objects.
37. Knowledge of cunning and the ability to deceive (“deception” is what is next to the mind, to the truth: tricks, tricks, practical jokes, sleight of hand).
38. The ability to guess the intended numbers, names, objects, phrases, etc.
39. Knowledge of games based on guessing (riddles, puzzles, charades, hide and seek, etc.).
40. Ability to mislead an opponent.
41. Knowledge of various betting games.

Followed by 23 male and 23 female arts. At the same time, the last 7 of them are also very similar. They differ only in the corresponding physiological and social characteristics of men and women.
Arts Men:
1. The ability to consciously act in accordance with the Commandments of one’s Gods, Ancestors and the Will of the Ancestor.
2. Striving to acquire the qualities of Knowledge: modesty; humility; non-violence; tolerance; you just; turning to a bona fide spiritual teacher; cleanliness; perseverance; self-discipline; renunciation of objects of sense gratification; absence of false ego; awareness that birth, death, old age and illness are evil; lack of attachments; independence from enslavement to wife, home, children, housework and work; calmness in the face of both pleasant and unpleasant events; constant and pure devotion to the Family; enlightenment of the mind and moving away from idle communication and crowds of people into solitude; self-sufficiency; recognizing the importance of achieving excellence; continuity of deep knowledge of Spirit, Light and true “I”; wise search for the Perfect Truth.
3. Knowledge of Vedic Scriptures.
4. The ability to transfer your consciousness into the Navier, Klubye, Kolobye and Divye bodies.
5. The ability to control vital force and the center of the hara.
6. The ability to organize your family and society.
7. Ability to teach your spouse.
8. Knowledge of various types of martial arts.
9. Experience in using various types of weapons, dexterity and dexterity.
10. Ability to make various types of weapons, equipment and tools.
11. Possession and control of sexual power.
12. Control of sexual energy and its unity with the energy of the spouse in various love positions.
13. Knowledge of the hidden meaning of women's clothes and jewelry, the ability to present them to your wife.
14. The ability not to upset your spouse.
15. Knowledge of affectionate words and the ability to use them.
16. Conscientious fulfillment of prescribed duties to the Family.
17. Knowledge of coping law and the ability to prove that you are right.
18. The ability to use your hair and beard.
19. Knowledge of folk customs and performance of rituals according to the Testaments of the Ancestors.
20. Possessing honor and dignity; the ability to protect oneself, one’s family, clan, people and Fatherland.
21. Excellence in the art of list games, military strategy and tactics.
22. The ability to move fluidly and perform hand-to-hand combat techniques in dance.
23. Ability to design and build; knowledge of the symbolism of the home.

Arts Women:
1. Have the determination to follow your husband.
2. The ability to guess and anticipate the husband’s wishes.
3. Agility in love positions.
4. The ability to undress beautifully.
5. The ability to arouse the interest of your spouse with your behavior and attire.
6. Ability to present yourself.
7. The ability to excite your husband.
8. The ability to leave without disturbing the sleeping husband.
9. Know ways to fall asleep after your husband.
10. Ability to sleep in any position.
11. The ability to demonstrate the necessary character.
12. Making dolls for games, rituals and witchcraft.
13. Ability to cry.
14. The ability to appease an angry husband.
15. The ability to manage your husband’s jealousy.
16. Carry out your duties conscientiously, even if you lose your husband.
17. The ability to prove that you are right.
18. Ability to use your hair (knowledge of hairstyles and ability to style hair).
19. Household and ritual witchcraft (knowledge of folk customs).
20. Knowledge of the necessary protection of one’s honor and dignity.
21. Art in entertaining games, dexterity and dexterity.
22. The ability to move fluidly and dance to various tunes.
23. The ability to settle in and create comfort in any environment.
Three arguments in favor of a Woman mastering these skills:
A woman, using these arts, will more easily win the affection of her lover.
A woman who possesses these arts naturally occupies an honorable place in society.
Knowledge of these arts contributes to greater charm, affection and attraction to such a beloved.

For a man, studying the arts helps him acquire qualities that make him perfect and fulfill his duty towards his family, Family, people and the Universe as a whole. After all, the acquisition of perfection by one Person benefits the entire Universe, and all of his Relatives, 7 generations up and down the Family Tree, gain goodness.

The knowledge commanded by the Ancestors is perfect for us, because their level of development far exceeded the capabilities of modern humanity. For this reason, studying the Vedic Scriptures and mastering the 64 arts can only be beneficial. By showing sincerity in the desire to bring maximum benefit to oneself, one's family, tribe, clan, people and the Ancestor, having secured the blessing of the Ancestors and showing Sanity, everyone will be able to come to U Spekhu!
Show some common sense!
I wish you success!

According to the Vedic scriptures, “it is better to perform one’s duties poorly than to perform others’ duties well,” this also applies to a woman’s dharma, therefore Vedic knowledge is extremely important for women. We are born in a certain body and appearance for a reason; each incarnation carries for us a number of tasks that must be completed during life. Perhaps you have met people or yourself have encountered the feeling that life is passing you by, that nothing is a joy, and that you seem to be living someone else’s life. These are the consequences of not fulfilling your purpose. The topic of women's purpose in life is truly vast, but some key concepts are worth highlighting.

Main women's responsibilities

According to the Vedas, a woman's first duty, her dharma or duty, is beauty. A woman should bring beauty to the world. Since she is called upon to pacify the mind of her husband and her loved ones, being beautiful is not just a woman’s whim or whim, it is the same natural duty as cooking or caring for the house.

The next duty, according to the Vedas for women, is precisely related to cooking. It is the duty of every woman to know how to cook. There are secrets of Vedic cooking, thanks to which food turns out not only very tasty, but also healing. Armed with ancient knowledge, with the help of seemingly ordinary food, a woman can treat such severe karmic cases as drug addiction and alcoholism.

Mystical knowledge of the Vedas

In fact, any woman has the talent of a healer. Since in ancient times doctors were consulted only as a last resort, every housewife had to have at least basic knowledge of how to cure simple diseases, how to harmonize the space and environment in the family in such a way that the disease would bypass her home and family altogether.

The secrets of Vedic knowledge are especially important for women in the field of astrology. Using knowledge of the laws of the planets, anyone can properly plan their life. The next most important topic for a woman is, of course, family, relationships with her husband, relatives and children, since a woman who gets along with her entire family is considered a saint.

The calling of a Vedic woman

Another guarantee of happiness for the fair sex is Vedic knowledge about men and women and their relationships. The success of her man, as well as peace and mutual understanding in the couple, depends on her.

And the last task of a woman, according to the Vedas, is to protect the home, since many people do not know how much negative energy is contained in their home at a subtle level. Being mostly skeptics, modern women simply reject the very fact of the existence of subtle energies, but stories about brownies, damage and the evil eye do not lose their relevance even in the era of high technology. Vedic knowledge for women provides specific methods on how to cleanse the house of “evil spirits” and what rituals should be performed as a preventive measure.

Available information about Vedic knowledge

Currently, there is a craving among people for the origins and knowledge of their ancestors. In this regard, a huge number of Vedic recommendations for women have appeared on the Internet. . Of course, this is good news, but it is very important that the information is as clear as possible, clearly structured and easy to remember. And the most important thing is that the knowledge gained can be easily applied in practice. The problem with most trainings and books on this topic is the abundance of theoretical information and the lack of some practical recommendations, so for women such sources very often turn out to be useless.

In light of the above, the trainings “Secrets of Vedic Knowledge for Women” by Marianne Polonsky are of particular value. Her lectures are structured according to a specific system and are clearly divided into 7 parts, each of which is devoted to one of the purposes of a woman. The author herself states that absolutely all the knowledge she gives at the seminars has been successfully tested in practice and is therefore absolutely reliable.

Emancipation and its consequences

As society developed, relations between the sexes changed dramatically. Previously, the main quality of a man should have been strength. Over time, it became necessary for a man to be financially independent and wealthy, then the requirements became more complex, and in the end everyone has equal rights and responsibilities. For this reason, many women have become like men, and the fault here is not only the fashion of trousers, which, by the way, Vedic knowledge advises women to avoid.

In the passionate struggle for leadership, the lady forgot about the most important thing: her true nature. It’s not for nothing that women are called “the opposite sex.” A man can easily have a family and grow his career at the same time, while a woman often has to make a choice, because a child needs to pay a lot of attention.

The modern strong woman has practically no true feminine qualities left in herself. She is used to being in control of her life; she values ​​freedom very much and is afraid of losing it. In an effort to show her superiority, she tries to take a high position, run her own business, and tries to self-realize in the social sphere. She manages her finances herself, without expecting help from anyone. The woman is ambitious and self-sufficient. She does not know such a thing as Vedic femininity, the knowledge of which could dramatically change her life for the better. According to statistics, such women usually remain lonely because they simply do not know how to find a common language with men and finally stop competing with them in the name of their own happiness.

Harmonious relationships

Meanwhile, nature created everything very harmoniously. A man and a woman are attracted because they complement each other. What does ancient Vedic knowledge say about the functions of both sexes? A man and a woman have their own tasks that they must perform. A woman is involved in raising children and providing comfort in the home, as well as taking care of her man. The man has the role of breadwinner and protector of the family. When a man begins to take care of the house and raising children, his function as a breadwinner falls and he has no time left to fulfill his natural function. Accordingly, he is constantly irritated. It’s the same with a woman, if she starts to provide for her family, she is also under constant stress. She feels unwanted, so she is often unhappy.

The art of being a woman

The situation is quite sad, but there is still a ray of light, because there are no hopeless situations!

First of all, a woman needs to stop being like a man and try to be a man, to compete with him in masculine qualities. However, according to Vedic knowledge for women, the weaker sex should not completely abandon male functions. A woman can still do business, she can certainly do difficult hard work in terms of mental strength. On the other hand, a woman should not perform difficult work associated with physical activity, since this not only contradicts her physiology, but can also violate harmonious laws, and most importantly, undermine her own invaluable health.

Back to the roots

If a man fulfills his main function - protecting the family, then a woman simply does not need to protect herself. Why do we have such strong women in society? Because they are afraid that they will not be sufficiently protected, but when the balance of obligations is achieved, then, accordingly, the woman naturally returns to her original responsibilities. She stops thinking about protection, about making money. This does not mean that she cannot work and earn money, the Vedas for women do not prohibit her from doing this, but only if it is not to the detriment of family relationships and children, if it is pleasure. Work should bring joy to the weaker sex.

Vedic woman and work

Some people do not take seriously a woman who fulfills all her original duties, but this is not true. If the hostess smiles, and the house is clean and dinner is prepared, she may well occupy a leadership position in the company. Using her charisma, she organizes work in such a way as to analyze her personal participation in all processes of the life of the company or her team with whom she works. This is what Vedic recommendations for women teach - how to harmonize their inner world, and, consequently, the space around themselves and relationships with their man.

How to become feminine?

To be feminine, change your look and be as delicate as possible: wear dresses and skirts, grow your hair and wear jewelry that only women can wear. Of course, we are talking about the colors that were preferred in the world historical era of femininity, when back in the old days girls loved to decorate themselves with flowers... Flowers are one of the few accessories that will never go out of fashion. Woman and flowers are sacred synonyms.

Even in ancient times, especially in the 17th-19th centuries, jewelry was a mandatory attribute of noble ladies. Therefore, to this day this tradition has remained a manifestation of aristocratic noble femininity. Of course, you should never overdo it and wear too much jewelry or accessories that don’t harmonize with each other. There is a whole science about how to wear jewelry correctly.

Ongoing training required

In order to cultivate the taste to be a beautiful woman, and not a Christmas tree, you need to “pump up” your sense of style and sense of what accessories are appropriate in what situations, what jewelry suits you and how much of them you can wear with one outfit. The art of being beautiful is a whole system of knowledge, and this can be learned by learning Vedic knowledge about women and for women, now available in many sources.

You also need to learn appropriate manners, movements of the female body, gait, intonation of conversation, gestures, sound of voice, facial expressions, laughter. Do not allow rudeness, harshness, criticism, or judgment in your conversation. Watch how you speak. A woman should speak softly, kindly and with love. Remember: feminine manners attract the opposite sex.

Femininity is always in the spotlight. In the modern world, wise women are trying to learn this; there are various trainings for this. However, it is best to turn to the primary source - books about Vedic knowledge for women, and become happy.

64 arts for men

64 arts a man needs to achieve perfection. According to Vedic knowledge.

1. The ability to consciously act in accordance with the Commandments of the Ancestors, the laws of one’s Gods and the Will of the Ancestor.

2. Striving to acquire the qualities of Knowledge: modesty; humility; non-violence; tolerance; simplicity; approaching a bona fide spiritual teacher; cleanliness; perseverance; self-discipline; renunciation of objects of sensual gratification; absence of false ego; awareness that birth, death, old age and illness are evil; lack of attachments; independence from enslavement to wife, home, children, housework and work; calmness in the face of both pleasant and unpleasant events; constant and pure devotion to the Family; enlightenment of the mind and departure from idle communication and crowds of people into solitude; self-sufficiency; recognizing the importance of achieving excellence; continuity of deep knowledge of Spirit, Light and true “I”; wise search for the Perfect Truth.

3. Knowledge of Vedic scriptures.

4. The ability to transfer your consciousness into the Navier, Klubye, Kolobye and Divye body.

5. Knowledge of coping law and the ability to prove that you are right.

6. The ability to control your feelings.

7. The ability to control vital force and the center of the hara.

8. The ability to organize your family and society.

9. Ability to teach your spouse.

10. Ability to locate yourself on the ground.

11. The ability to communicate with the elements of nature.

12. The ability to use your hair and beard.

13. Knowledge of folk customs and performance of rituals according to the behests of ancestors.

14. Knowledge of the basics of star reading; favorable and unfavorable days.

15. Cleanliness.

16. The ability to do various massages, maintain longevity and health.

17. Healing treatment: herbal medicine, spells, life force treatment, etc.

18. Possession of honor and dignity; the ability to protect oneself, one’s family, clan, people and Fatherland.

19. Knowledge of various types of martial arts.

20. Excellence in the art of list games, military strategy and tactics.

21. Experience in using various types of weapons, dexterity and dexterity.

22. The ability to move fluidly and perform hand-to-hand combat techniques in dance.

23. Ability to make various types of weapons, equipment and tools.

24. Ability to design and build; knowledge of the symbolism of the home.

25. The ability to reason, identify patterns and draw conclusions.

26. The ability to be collected in any environment.

27. The ability to express thoughts clearly and eloquently.

28. Knowledge of different characters.

29. Knowledge of games that develop human thinking abilities.

30. Knowledge of various betting games.

31. Knowledge of cunning and the ability to deceive (“deception” is what is next to the mind, to the truth: tricks, tricks, practical jokes, sleight of hand).

32. Ability to mislead opponents.

33. The ability to guess the intended numbers, names, objects, phrases, etc.

34. Knowledge of guessing games (riddles, puzzles, charades, hide and seek, etc.).

35. Conducting business calculations, knowledge of measures of weight, volume, density, etc.

36. Knowledge of the tax system.

37. Ability to negotiate and conduct business.

38. The ability to recognize the qualities, abilities, states and intentions of a person by his gait, movements, gestures, facial expressions and posture.

39. The ability to recognize a person’s condition by his handwriting, to express himself beautifully and competently in writing.

40. The ability to convey, through painting, drawing, sculpting, engraving, chasing, forging, casting, stone and wood carving, one’s condition and perception of the surrounding world.

41. Knowledge of the properties of stones and the ability to use them.

42. The ability to solve dreams and interpret omens.

43. Arranging garlands, wreaths, bouquets and knowing their hidden meaning.

44. The ability to make building materials, utensils, household items and toys from clay.

45. Production of fabrics and yarn from various materials; making and decorating clothes; knowledge of the hidden meaning of patterns and characteristics of products.

46. ​​Preparation of paints; dyeing of fabrics, yarn, clothing, utensils.

47. Cooking and preparing drinks.

48. Knowledge of wild plants, their use in everyday life and nutrition.

49. The ability to obtain a good harvest in the field, garden and vegetable garden,

save it and make food preparations.

50. Knowledge of animal husbandry.

51. Communication and games with animals; training them, instilling the necessary actions.

52. Knowledge of tales, fairy tales, epics, legends.

53. Writing poems, songs and performing them.

54. Knowledge of favorable and unfavorable rhythms, meters, melodies and their reproduction on various instruments.

55. Ability to juggle various objects.

56. Possession and control of sexual power.

57. The ability to spin with a spouse a whirlwind of sexual energy of sufficient power to conceive an aristocrat (“aristocrat” - Arius a hundred times), a boyar (“boyar” - boyar, bright, enlightened, wise, strong, courageous).

58. Control of sexual energy and its unity with the energy of the spouse in various love positions.

59. Knowledge of the art of lovemaking and games.

60. The ability to satisfy your spouse and give her the greatest pleasure.

61. Knowledge of the hidden meaning of women's clothing and jewelry, the ability to present them to your wife.

62. The ability not to upset your spouse.

63. Knowledge of affectionate words and the ability to use them.

64. Conscientiously fulfill prescribed duties to the Family.

64 arts for men taken from the book by A.V. Treblebov, but the original text is given in the Vedic texts of the Kama Sutra.


[b]ORIGINAL 64 arts for women

"Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana" Bombay, 1961

The following are the arts to be studied, together with the Kama Sutra:--

2. Playing on musical instruments.

4. Union of dancing, singing, and playing instrumental music.

5. Writing and drawing.

7. Arraying and adorning an idol with rice and flowers.

8. Spreading and arraying beds or couches of flowers, or flowers upon the ground.

9. Coloring the teeth, garments, hair, nails, and bodies, i.e., staining, dyeing, coloring and painting the same.

10. Fixing stained glass into a floor.

11. The art of making beds, and spreading out carpets and cushions for reclining.

12. Playing on musical glasses filled with water.

13. Storing and accumulating water in aqueducts, cisterns and reservoirs.

14. Picture making, trimming and decorating.

15. Stringing of rosaries, necklaces, garlands and wreaths.

16. Binding of turbans and chaplets, and making crests and top-knots of flowers.

17. Scenic representations. Stage playing.

18. Art of making ear ornaments.

19. Art of preparing perfumes and odours.

20. Proper disposition of jewels and decorations, and adornment in dress.

21. Magic or sorcery.

22. Quickness of hand or manual skill.

23. Culinary art, i.e., cooking and cooking.

24. Making lemonades, sherbets, acidulated drinks, and spirituous extracts with proper flavor and color.

25. Tailor's work and sewing.

26. Making parrots, flowers, tufts, tassels, bunches, bosses, knobs, &c., out of yarn or thread.

27. Solution of riddles, enigmas, covert speeches, verbal puzzles and enigmatical questions.

28. A game, which consisted in repeating verses, and as one person finished, another person had to commence at once, repeating another verse, beginning with the same letter with which the last speaker's verse ended, whoever failed to repeat was considered to have lost, and to be subject to pay a forfeit or stake of some kind.

29. The art of mimicry or imitation.

30. Reading, including chanting and intoning.

31. Study of sentences difficult to pronounce. It is played as a game chiefly by women and children, and consists of a difficult sentence being given, and when repeated quickly, the words are often transposed or badly pronounced.

32. Practice with sword, single stick, quarter staff, and bow and arrow.

33. Drawing inferences, reasoning or inferring.

34. Carpentry, or the work of a carpenter.

35. Architecture, or the art of building.

36. Knowledge about gold and silver coins, and jewels and gems.

37. Chemistry and mineralogy.

38. Coloring jewels, gems and beads.

39. Knowledge of mines and quarries.

40. Gardening; knowledge of treating the diseases of trees and plants, of nourishing them, and determining their ages.

41. Art of cock fighting, quail fighting and ram fighting.

42. Art of teaching parrots and starlings to speak.

43. Art of applying perfumed ointments to the body, and of dressing the hair with unguents and perfumes and braiding it.

44. The art of understanding writing in cypher, and the writing of words in a peculiar way.

45. The art of speaking by changing the forms of words. It is of various kinds. Some speak by changing the beginning and end of words, others by adding unnecessary letters between every syllable of a word, and so on.

46. ​​Knowledge of language and of the vernacular dialects.

47. Art of making flower carriages.

48. Art of framing mystical diagrams, of addressing spells and charms, and binding armlets.

49. Mental exercises, such as completing stanzas or verses on receiving a part of them; or supplying one, two or three lines when the remaining lines are given indiscriminately from different verses, so as to make the whole an entire verse with regard to its meaning; or arranging the words of a verse written irregularly by separating the vowels from the consonants, or leaving them out altogether; or putting into verse or prose sentences represented by signs or symbols. There are many other such exercises.

50. Composing poems.

51. Knowledge of dictionaries and vocabularies.

52. Knowledge of ways of changing and disguising the appearance of persons.

53. Knowledge of the art of changing the appearance of things, such as making cotton to appear as silk, coarse and common things to appear as fine and good.

54. Various ways of gambling.

55. Art of obtaining possession of the property of others by means of muntras or incantations.

56. Skill in youth sports.

57. Knowledge of the rules of society, and of how to pay respects and compliments to others.

58. Knowledge of the art of war, of arms, of armies, &c.

59. Knowledge of gymnastics.

60. Art of knowing the character of a man from his features.

61. Knowledge of scanning or constructing verses.

62. Arithmetical recreations.

63. Making artificial flowers.

64. Making figures and images in clay.

The entire book is in original English "Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana" Bombay, 1961 ( , )

Build a fire

This is generally a skill that almost everyone learns as a child. However, the art of properly starting a fire is forgotten, and in some cases it is extremely necessary. There are several ways to start a fire, but you should choose one for yourself, which you can then use if necessary.

Tying a tie

A stumbling block for many men. You need to learn to tie a tie from childhood so that this process is remembered, just like tying shoelaces. To be honest, I personally don’t know how to tie ties - I’ve only needed this skill a few times in my life. However, it is necessary and worth learning. This is especially important if you often have to wear “business” clothes.

Various sports

Very often we have to play at least one sports game: volleyball, football, chess finally. And that person who does not have basic gaming skills sometimes looks funny in the eyes of others, realizing this. Naturally, such knowledge does not lead to anything good, and many simply become shy, withdraw into themselves, not knowing how to do what others can do. It must be said that many communication experts recommend that men acquire basic skills in playing various sports, including football, volleyball, basketball, chess, some types of card games (poker) and fishing.

Car service

Nobody requires men to be an ace, a master who can fix any problem in a car. But basic car care and repair skills are required by most car enthusiasts. Yes, the complexity of cars today has reached a level that is practically inaccessible to any individual car enthusiast. But you need to be able to fix the most common types of problems. Well, at least change the tire.

Communication

Good conversation is something of an art. It is necessary to be able to carry on a conversation without causing awkwardness - and this is even if you are communicating with a stranger. Of course, in order to learn this, you need to communicate a lot. But the result is worth it, tested by many people. Someone who doesn't know how to communicate with other people is likely to be less successful than a person who knows how to talk.

First aid skills

This science is taught in almost all schools in all CIS countries. However, all this is very quickly forgotten, and we no longer remember what and where to prick, tie and hold in case of injury. However, basic first aid skills are needed, such skills can one day save someone's life.

Fixing things

Now some men don’t even know how to hammer nails, let alone a more complex task (for example, connecting an outlet to a balcony). But such skills are needed very often. The funny thing is that not only those who can hire a master who will do everything for you do not know how to do this, but also those who do not have money and who simply do not consider it necessary to do something. Well, the last category can be called losers. Well, or lazy people, whatever.

Prepare

Also, some men believe that there is no point in learning to cook - after all, sooner or later a woman will appear in their life who will do all this. However, it is not always on the life path of such a person that he comes across a woman who agrees to cook, cook and cook. And tasty and healthy food is the key to good health. The point is to maintain good physical shape and eat fast food or something like doshirak (Mivina).