How to hint that you like him. How to hint to a man about your sympathy

Today on our agenda dragging a guy to bed. Well, in other words, I will teach you hint to the guy you like about sex. For many girls, detailed topics are considered shy. In vain! As they say, what is natural is not disgusting. But hint to a man that you want him, you also need to be able to.

I found one question on the forum, I hope the girl will not mind if I post it here and answer it.

I've been dating a guy for about a month now. If you say that you like it, then say nothing. At first glance, "butterflies begin to fly in the stomach." In general, how to tell him that I want sex? Tell me plz.
Marina 23 years old

Well, let's answer the question. Many will probably advise: "So tell him directly, you don't have to endure it." Such advisers should be immediately blacklisted. Girls, learn to control yourself. Yes, if you want to come across as a “girl of easy virtue” or push a guy away, you can follow the advice and say everything directly. But we are not like that. We need to set the guy on fire, make him crawl and ask for sex.

Want to get a guy into bed? The flag is in your hands. More precisely to him. Flirt with him, flirt, but don't let him get too close. Ignite it on fire. He must want sex more than you. We have already discussed the rules of seduction of men
The guy should not see that you want him. He shouldn't even be aware of it. Even if the desire is high, hold it back. It's hard, you have to try.
If the guy is too shy, he will have to be pushed a little. Kiss or hug, generally cheer up so that he becomes more confident.
Once the process starts, try not to stop it. Otherwise, all your hints will go down the drain, "the fish will break."

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The guy aroused your sympathy, liked you a lot, but is he completely indifferent to you? You need to give him a hint that he impresses you. A young man either wants a relationship with you or not. Do not be afraid that the guy will reject you. It is unlikely that this will happen. And if this happens, it's okay, then the guy is not worthy of you. How to show your sympathy? Read on and find out.

Do a little research. It is best to get to know his relatives and friends and slowly find out what the guy thinks of you. In the event that he has sympathy for you, that's great. You can move on. Make a good impression on his surroundings. Then all these people will surely tell your chosen one about such a beautiful young lady as you.
Try to catch the guy's eyes more often. Look amazing every time so that he remembers all your meetings. The mysterious stranger will no doubt be imprinted in his memory.
Find out where he usually spends his time. Go there some other time. If a guy likes going to the gym, sign up and you, if he loves rock climbing, try to do it too. Maybe he's a hiker? Pack your backpack and join.
Flirt. When meeting, look the guy in the eyes longer, then sharply look away. Shoot your eyes, play.
If you spend time in a common company, you can gently brush a fluff off your shoulder, inadvertently touch his hand, hurt your knee. By invading his space, you will already embarrass the young man.
Be positive, smile at the guy, express your disposition towards him with all your appearance. Vibes of love and tenderness should emanate from you, the guy will feel it.
Give him help by chance, do some kind of pleasantness, praise.
Next to you, he should be comfortable and warm, create a spiritual atmosphere.
Give a present for the holidays.
Don't talk about other young people in his presence.

When you get the chance to be alone, make up your mind to speak directly. Of course, this option is not for timid girls, but if you are a strong, self-confident person, then do it. It is quite possible that the guy will be glad that you finally confessed, maybe he has longed for you. Everything will be resolved. If the guy is negative, admit that this is a joke. Are you afraid to say open? Invite him to the cinema in the evening or to the square or park where couples in love usually spend time. He will immediately understand everything and either agree or not. On a date, tell him about yourself, tell an interesting story, have fun and be direct. Don't load it with problems. Disappear at the end.

You can write a note:"You're so cool. I already fell in love”, do not sign. Ask people you know to tell him, without talking about you. When you meet, smile and shoot with your eyes.

How to behave correctly

Be cheerful, cheerful and active. Smile, make jokes, but not evil ones, tease and incite.
Invite me to ride in a hot air balloon. Invite me to an amusement park. Offer a tour of the city, if you know the area perfectly, you can tell something amazing.
Give a special gift that he will remember. Not expensive but original.
Don't flirt or smile at others. Otherwise, your chosen one will not think very well of you that you are a frivolous person.
Don't hang yourself around the guy's neck, don't cry, don't pester, don't be cheeky.

Write that you intend to go to a club for a theme party, you need to go with a company, and you are missing 1 person, and you wanted to invite him.
Write a confession in verse. It will be beautiful and romantic. There is no need for suffering, tears and torment, show your love of life and optimism in verse.
Send him a message about his eyes, write that they drive you crazy, you drown in them, forgetting everything.
Write how courageous and strong he is, it is clear that he is a real man, a knight and a prince.
.Tell him about your admiration for his beautiful hands, they are so pumped up and powerful.

How to hint to a stranger about your sympathy in contact?

Send a present. Wish you a good, good day. Write a comment on his photo, admire his figure or ability to dress. Tell him that only a princess is suitable for such a guy.

Send him a song that hints to the boy about your feelings. Send a curious photo that will surprise him.

In the evening, wish you good night and sweet dreams. Write a funny poem for a young man. Offer him a cup of coffee in a cozy cafe.

There are a lot of options to show your feelings, choose what you like best.

At breaks, do not run away to your girlfriends, but stay near him. Help with control work. Explain a difficult problem. Be nice, kind and friendly. Joke, smile and tell fascinating stories. Inadvertently touch the boy, hit him with a bag or hair. Look into his eyes, smile. Invite after school to a wonderful place, to a cozy cafe or to an unusual cinema. Tell him the secret of what happened to you.

Tell us how you spent the summer, where you went and what you saw. Tell me about unusual animals and rare birds that you met on the trip. For example, if you have been to Bali, tell us about the Monkey Forest. Monkeys are so funny and mischievous, but also cunning and agile. Tell me how one monkey stole your brother's hat and another one snatched your sister's banana.

Be direct, kind and sweet. Agree if he expresses a desire to see you after school. Play pranks and have fun in his company. Be a little hooligan, sassy and classy.

How to show a guy your sympathy in a text message

Send your boyfriend funny text messages. Find funny or unusual pictures and send them to him. Write a text message: "I really like you." And the next day, be impregnable. The guy will be surprised, think about you seriously. Ask him in a text message why he was arrogant and snobby yesterday, because it doesn’t suit him, he is so sweet, kind, you know for sure.

Write to the guy about his bottomless sea-green eyes, you are just dumbfounded and surprised that such things happen. Call him for a walk in SMS.

It will help to give a hint to the guy about your sympathy:

Flirt. Flirt nicely and smile, you can giggle if he is joking. Be fun and spontaneous. Tease and joke yourself. You can lightly cling to him and hide from his field of vision.
Your presence beside him. Visit the places where he goes, meet him by chance on the street, catch his eye at school, get a job in his company. But don't abuse it. You don't have to tail him.
Praise and compliments. Say nice things to a guy, appreciate his muscles or mind. Comment on his photo, admire his manly appearance.
Close contact. Touch it at the slightest opportunity, by accident and not on purpose. Lightly pet him. Shake off his clothes from fluff, as if inadvertently.

Mistakes that should not be made

Don't panic if the guy doesn't react the way you would like.

Turn everything into a joke. Don't show your feelings in front of everyone. He might not like it. Don't try to make him jealous. Cheap receivers will not work. Don't tell everyone around you that you love this guy unconditionally. Do not verbalize confessions through friends. Do not tell the guy unpleasant things from his life or past. Do not insult his buddies, relatives or other girls. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. Don't draw. Don't be cheeky. Do not expect an exceptionally joyful reaction to your confession, be prepared for failure.

How to please a boy?

Answers to other questions

How to make it clear to a young man that he is interested in you at a distance?

If the guy lives in another city, you can keep in touch through social networks. Send beautiful photos, music or poetry. In the morning you can call and wish a good day. In the evening ask how he spent the day.

How to hint about feelings if you work together?

Invite to a cafe or a cozy restaurant. Help at work. You can treat him with pies or salad.

Call for a walk.

How to hint about feelings to your boss?

Find out if he is married. If free, go on the offensive. For starters, do your job well, you can stay late in the evening. Bring a delicious chicken or homemade sausage from home. Invite to the exhibition, for example, the Impressionists.

Everything will be fine

How to show a guy that you want to date him?

If you want to show a guy that you hope for a relationship, then do the following.

Actively flirt and do not hang out in his company. Be fun and inviting.
Get in his eyes more often. Look chic, even sassy.
Speak confidently, do not mumble, do not be nervous.
Touch him, stroke him or look into his eyes.
Be unpredictable and original, surprise and amaze.

Whether to wait for the next step from him, if he understood the hint

If the guy agrees to meet, behaves at ease and joyfully, then he also wants to be with you. If he pours compliments, admires your appearance, asks you about everything, this indicates that your efforts have been crowned with success. If you also get beautiful pictures by correspondence, he found out your number and calls you, it’s clear that the guy has a crush on you. Rejoice, the guy himself was not averse to starting a relationship with you.

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First of all, find out how a man treats you. To do this, come closer to the man (up to half a meter) and evaluate his behavior. If a man does not pull away, does not leave and continues to behave as if nothing had happened, then he also sympathizes with you.

Next, evaluate his gestures. Look at how his posture has changed. If he straightened his shoulders, picked up his stomach, straightened his clothes, began to fiddle with the watch strap, a mobile phone is also a good sign. A man wants to seem more attractive to you, even if he himself does not realize this.

When talking to you, a man's hands should not be crossed and hidden behind his back. If he puts his thumbs in his pockets or on his belt, then you are of interest to him.

Check out the man's look. Moving eyes, a confused expression, slightly closed eyes indicate that the man is uncomfortable, he is not ready for contact and does not want to continue communication. And, on the contrary, undressing, attentive look speaks of interest.

Use body language and gestures

Poses. Refuse closed gestures: do not cross your legs, do not keep your hands in your pockets, do not hide behind your purse. Thus, you put a barrier between yourself and a man.

Touch. Find reasons to casually touch a man. Pass the plate by accidentally hitting his hand, casually touch his knee under the table, lightly pat on the shoulder when you both laugh at a good joke. However, such touches should be light and short.

Preening gestures. Also, don't forget about female preening gestures - sensually throwing hair off the face, straightening the hairstyle, demonstrating the wrists, swaying the hips while walking.

Smile with eyes. When meeting a man, smile, even if you are very embarrassed or you subconsciously want to hide your sympathy. Try to smile with your eyes. A man will definitely feel the positive energy emanating from you.

Compliments. A compliment addressed to the object of your adoration should be realistic, specific and sincere. Make compliments as if by the way: “Do you like it too?”, “I appreciate people with a sense of taste”, “Tell me, where did you get such stylish glasses?”.

Show interest

To show your sympathy to a man, it is important to be sincerely interested in everything that is important to him. Ask the man to tell you something about himself. Ask about your favorite hobby, friends, childhood, dreams that he wants to make a reality. Try to ask about everything positive so that communication with you is associated with positive.

Confess your feelings

Give the man your phone number, business card, email address, page address on the social network. At the same time, tell him that he can call or write to you and just like that. It is important to convey this information without much emotion so that the man does not think that you are dragging him into your networks.

Feelings can be confessed in person. Start a conversation with a neutral topic and gradually move to the most important. Do not confuse a man with long conversations, but simply say that you really like him and you would like to date him. Don't rush him to answer. Perhaps the man will be surprised by this turn of the conversation and he will need time to think everything over.

If you can’t immediately hint at what a woman wants at the moment, you should pay attention to this article, which contains typical situations and for each of which recommendations are offered for further action.

How to hint to a guy in correspondence that I like him, about my feelings, sympathy, VKontakte, via SMS, take the first step

By correspondence, it is much easier to say about feelings, this is face to face. You can do it between words. For example, say that you were invited to visit, for a birthday. You would be happy to invite him with you, because he is cute to you.

No need to say: I like you, let's meet. It will be too vulgar, intrusive. Better: I would be pleased if you would accompany me to my birthday party. The first step is not difficult to take, especially when you are confident in the reciprocity of feelings.

How to hint to a man that I don't like him

The easiest way is to come up with reasons not to meet. A smart person will understand everything. For more slow-witted men, you can talk in his presence about sympathy for other men.

How to hint a friend to a relationship that I want and love him if we are not dating

Start flirting, this is the best way to let a guy know that he cares. When meeting, try to be as close as possible, as if by chance touch your hands, shoulder. While going to the cinema, it’s good to put your head on his shoulder, and if you watch horror, hold it tightly by the hand. During the correspondence, say how wonderful he is. Praise when communicating.

How to hint a guy for a walk, first kiss, gift, date, about flowers, buy a phone

An indecisive guy can be invited on a date, a walk.

Hiding his eyes, and then, looking intently into his eyes, slowly shifting his gaze to his lips, you can hint at a kiss. Guys understand sign language very well. During parting, you need to press your body against him, this will push him to kiss.

It’s easy to hint about colors, you just have to tell which ones you like. Talk about it for about 5 minutes, so that the guy remembers the information exactly, or vice versa in passing.

Expensive gifts are rarely given by men just like that. Especially if you've been dating for a very short time. You can hint about the desired phone closer to your birthday or other holiday.

It is best to answer the question of what to give as a gift and say that you really want a new phone. Another option is to often talk about your phone as not working well or old.

How to tell a guy what kind of engagement ring he likes

Some time before this event, start a conversation about rings, ask him which one he would like to buy for his wedding and, in between, tell about what you like. You can go to a jewelry store to look at a gift for your mother or girlfriend, and, as if by chance, see the dream ring of your life. Show and praise, say how wonderful it is.

How to hint a guy about a wedding, pregnancy

Start a conversation about a shared future. How would you like to see your life. How many children. Where to get married. Pregnancy is hinted at by frequent nausea or missed periods.

How to hint to a guy that you have your period

To say that today is not the best day in a girl's life.

How to hint a guy if he has a girlfriend, a car

To delicately ask about the presence of a girl, you can in a conversation, specifying how he spends his time. Ask how things are going in your personal life. Q: Will your girlfriend mind? The answer will clarify a lot.

You can find out about the availability of a car by asking for help to transport some thing.

Before you actively begin to turn your acquaintance into a serious relationship, answer two questions for yourself. First: do you know this guy well enough, his habits and nuances of character? Perhaps, at the first meeting, he seemed to you a fairy-tale prince, and during subsequent communication he will turn out to be rude, uncouth and "narrow-minded." Second question: do you really want to close the distance between you by becoming his girlfriend? Imagine that the development of relations has taken place, you have become a couple, each has at least minimal duties towards each other, responsibility to each other. Are you sure this guy is the right guy and you sure don't want to wait for the next prince? Then it's time to act.

Which Guys Need Hints For A Closer Relationship?

Usually guys are quite active and are the first to offer a serious and closer relationship. But there are exceptions:

He is also not indifferent to you, but he is afraid to take the first step towards rapprochement (kiss, write a letter, send a valentine or talk to you directly) because he does not want to lose you and is afraid to scare you away. Usually he communicates with you nicely and kindly, he doesn’t mind going somewhere together, he is always ready to help, he actively sets topics for conversation and he definitely doesn’t have a girlfriend. If all this is about your potential boyfriend, then you can safely take the first step yourself, and then he will make sure that he is attractive to you and take the initiative in his own hands. Note: guys of this type are afraid to scare away the girl because of sympathy for her and a strong attraction, they are afraid to lose "their only one", since the natures themselves are romantic and faithful. Therefore, hint at relationships easily and delicately (this will be discussed below), avoid open pressure so that he is not afraid of you and does not think that you want to "eat" him and not at all the girl of his dreams. Act carefully and remain a princess at the same time.
"Brake for life". This is the saddest type. These guys make henpecked husbands, husbands who are not able to take responsibility for their family. All the time they need someone to push them and often hope that everything will fall apart and turn out by itself, they prefer to go with the flow. Often they are dependent on the opinion of relatives, friends and their mother, who protects them all their lives and does not let them go far from themselves.

Indecisive guys are often looking for a "mommy" girl who is ready to surround them with care so that they can continue to lead their measured existence. If you feel that your potential boyfriend is one of those, then think about whether you are ready to play the role of "I am both a woman and a man" all my life or the period of your relationship?

What guys should you stay away from relationships with?

There are three types of guys who should be feared and for whom hinting at a relationship is not something that is not worth it, but useless. He "hunts" for completely different girls than you, so he has not yet taken any active steps:

The guy likes to "make and throw". He does not perceive any girl as a future companion or wife. His goal is to seduce and disappear with minimal loss to himself and without falling into the mud in front of mutual acquaintances. There is no action in your direction because he doubts, does not know how to approach you, is afraid that, having learned about the frivolity of his intentions, you will humiliate him in front of your friends, leave him in the cold. Beware if you know that now he does not have a girlfriend, but just recently he broke up with the 20th.
These guys love to "murmur", look meaningfully, sometimes take the hand and build a "humble" out of themselves, who does not dare to do more. And if the girl herself takes the first step (and he is just waiting for this!), He will immediately say that you didn’t understand everything that he didn’t expect such a turn. You will feel humiliated. And the moral of this fable: all the girls hang themselves on him, he is a king and a king, well, you are one of 100. These are very self-centered types.
He communicates with you often and in a friendly way, but he will never offer a relationship and you should not hint at them, because his interest is self-interest. This guy is for love "by calculation", and you are not his berry. Unfortunately, this type is by no means uncommon. Look closely: if he often talks about money, about his expenses, about inheritances, real estate, likes to mention his influential relatives, acquaintances, then this is a reason for you to think.

Careless hints, after which the guy will run away

There are three important points that you should a priori observe if you want to have a serious relationship with a guy, and not scare him away:

Don't talk to him about his past or current (potential real) girlfriends. If he himself starts such conversations, then reduce them to nothing, avoid. If you begin to support the theme of his "personal life", give advice on how to behave with one or the other, then he will perceive you only as a friend.
Do not tell him in all colors about what kind of loving husband you dream of, about your future five children, about what kind of wedding dress you want and what country you want to go on your honeymoon. The guy may just be scared of your premature attempt to marry him to yourself or think that you are not in love with him, but are considering it as an option in order to get married as soon as possible, and it doesn’t matter to whom.
Don't meet your parents. Before the explanation of high feelings occurs between the two of you, getting to know your parents is taboo. It is not appropriate and will be perceived as a "collision with claims", even if your parents are very soft and cheerful in nature.
Do not go to him openly, showing your violent feelings and open sexuality. A normal guy will not build a serious relationship with a "sex bomb", ready for anything at once, because he is such a "cute".

Remember that your boyfriend has to conquer you himself. Your task is to gently and delicately hint to him that you are ready for this, that you expect steps from him towards rapprochement and that he is very nice to you.

Do not "tryndi" incessantly. Learn to listen to the guy, but do not be silent in the conversation, keep the conversation going. At the same time, do not interrupt the interlocutor, let him talk, show genuine interest in everything that the guy says. Girls who talk too much, incessantly, give the impression of hyperactive, restless persons, not everyone can be around for a long time.
Don't chase him. Walking "on the heels" and "like a shadow" will only lead to the fact that he will avoid you.

10 Ways to Hint a Guy About a Relationship

Smile more when talking to him. Don't whine, don't complain about life. Let him see the "light" in your eyes, joy, express sympathy and lightness. A smile and a positive attitude is the most effective way to win over a person.
Unobtrusively find out: "How are you?". No need to ask this question every day, literally and "on the forehead." Intersect with him and learn "news" from his life. The main thing is to let him know that you care about his life, his deeds, well-being, mood.
Try to spend as much time with him as possible. Sign up for the same sports club as him, talk with him, find common interests, topics for continuing the conversation. Each of your meetings should be more interesting than the previous one.
More humor: "as a joke" invite on a date - what if he agrees? Try to laugh, joke (but not all the time, of course, feel the measure). With "jokes" it will be easier to chat him up for a joint pastime, and there it is within easy reach to the candy-bouquet stage.
During your joint trip somewhere (to an amusement park, just a walk, to a museum), casually take his hand. You can start with light short touches "on occasion": he helps you put on a coat, passes a glass, holds your hand in cold weather, when it's icy outside.
Arrange a trip together somewhere. If you do not dare to invite him, beat everything as if you are not alone. Allegedly, this will be a joint trip to the cinema, and your friends will refuse as close to the point as possible - they suddenly have urgent business (agree in advance with friends / acquaintances). And so you will find yourself in the cinema together, and after the session, take a leisurely walk in the park, perhaps he will offer to take you home.
A good joint trip to nature, you can in the company of friends. The main thing is that you have the opportunity to talk with him alone and that he sees you in an unusual, romantic and mysterious way: a long dress, a wreath of wildflowers... Perhaps, after talking in such an informal atmosphere, the guy himself will take steps towards rapprochement and hint no longer have to.
Through his friend. This is a very efficient way. Good and trusting communication with a guy's friend is needed. Tell him you like him and maybe a friend will let your potential boyfriend know that it's time to act and his ears will buzz about what a "cool girl" you are. Just make sure in advance that a friend is an adequate person and will definitely not make you laugh.
Going to a disco. Alternatively, invite him to a dance and charm him. But ideally, let everything work out by itself: an incendiary dance at a disco or a party will turn into a “white” dance, and after the waltz that you “suddenly” dance at the wedding of your best friends, he will not want to let go of your hand.
Constantly keep yourself "in good shape": a neat appearance, a well-groomed face, beautiful makeup (the latter is not necessary - depending on the situation). Let him notice that you always look beautiful, then the thought will flash through him that perhaps you are trying this way just for him.
"Freeze" at the showcase with beautiful flowers during your walk together. This hint is very subtle, but perhaps the guy will guess and will soon give you a bouquet and offer to meet.
Tell him about your friend / acquaintance, whom her boyfriend gave "sooo bouquet!" Tell us about the "unforgettable" date of friends, about the romantic wedding of a friend you attended. The hint is also subtle, but you can guess the subtext.
Show that you are not comfortable / afraid to be somewhere. Demonstrate that you are looking for protection and support: a dark park, a slippery path, a heavy downpour, or let's say you can't see well and broke your glasses just an hour ago (any excuse is good). You need to show that you need to be "protected": cover with a jacket, take it by the arm, see you off, cover with your umbrella ..
Give a gift made by yourself: knit a scarf, mittens, a hat, bake cookies and, after tying the box with a beautiful ribbon, give it for Valentine's Day. Just carefully find out in advance what color the guy prefers, whether he wears knitted things at all and whether he eats sweets. Well, if you don’t eat sweets, you can also find a way out, for example, make apple marshmallow without sugar or give dried fruits.
Remember that the eyes are the window to the soul. Look the guy in the eyes, and they themselves will say everything for you: about feelings, about your sympathy for him. But the look must necessarily be supported by common interests, regular communication. If you just look "bulging your eyes", it will be perceived as "having a crush on him and staring."
Ask him to help you, for example, with a computer (to screw something up there yourself). He will come to your house, treat him to tea with what you baked yourself. Let him gradually get used to you, to your housekeeping, to the fact that you are near. If he likes this state of affairs, then he will take further steps.