Why a man humiliates and insults a woman: the psychology of male behavior. “Only a man humiliated by fate can insult a woman. Only a man humiliated by fate can hit a woman.

1. To always have a good mood, learn to control yourself. Don’t be offended over trifles, try not to quarrel with people close to you, forgive them. By forgiving, you get rid of anger and vindictive feelings that primarily destroy yourself.

2. Try to look at the world with humor. Even if you were insulted or found yourself in a difficult situation, still smile and tell yourself: “This too shall pass!” It’s incredible, but for those who sincerely believe, everything bad really goes away.

3. Don’t sit at home, being offended by the whole world! You can be sure: on the street, in the company of friends and acquaintances, the mood is never bad. Proven!

4. Introduce elements of novelty into your life. Psychologists recommend changing stable habits from time to time - for example, starting a new hobby or changing your clothing style. After all, you will really feel significant changes: for example, by wearing high-heeled shoes, you will become taller, straighten up and (most importantly!) you will begin to catch the interested glances of the opposite sex. Nothing has such a positive effect on your mood as the attention of others.

5. Learn to relax. When you do some boring work, think about something pleasant. For example, about an upcoming meeting with friends or a loved one. An aroma lamp will also help you relax. Here is a list of essential oils that have a positive effect on mood and state of mind: tangerine, orange, lemon, grapefruit, bergamot.

6. Go swimming. Water helps the body rest and relax, improving tone and mood. Additionally, the possibility of an accident or injury when swimming is minimal, unlike many other sports.

7. Stop, look around... Sometimes people find themselves in a trap simply because they do not take the time to think about whether they are moving in the right direction. You should put your thoughts, goals, and connections in order in a timely manner, just as you regularly clean your room.

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9. Maintain a sense of perspective. Life is movement, and what seems like a tragedy today may bring a smile tomorrow. It’s not for nothing that they say that the morning is wiser than the evening.

10. Forget about troubles. If you want to lie in bed and feel sorry for yourself, it is better not to act on this desire. “Move and your emotions will also become more mobile,” says psychologist Marion Dilworth. “Watch a movie, do some cleaning... Remember: you are responsible for your feelings and sensations.”

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Man and woman. Their relationship is extremely complex and full of dramatic moments. Love and hate seem to exist side by side. No one knows at what point love and prudence recede, and a barrage of anger and hatred bursts into their place. It is difficult to imagine, even in our century, a family where such incidents would not occur. And most often, representatives of the fairer sex become victims of rude treatment. What happens to representatives of the stronger sex, why is a man capable of humiliating and offending the woman he loves? How to protect yourself and what to do to stop it?

Married life is not without misunderstandings, disputes, quarrels and serious conflicts. And that's okay. The bad thing is that people don't know how to solve their problems. Very often, feeling his physical superiority, a man insults his woman, thereby humiliating her.

Psychology: why a man humiliates and insults a woman

Gaps in education

We all come from childhood, we all go through the school of family relationships at that tender age when we still do not know how to distinguish what is good and what should not be learned and done. The pattern of behavior of the father, who constantly insults and humiliates the mother, is learned by the children. When a boy becomes an adult, he then treats his wife the same way. Patience and humility of the mother and rudeness of the father become the norm for the girl. Subconsciously, the young man chooses the one who will endure humiliation. And the young wife will never question why a man calls and humiliates a woman. Many psychologists claim that children repeat the fate of their parents and even some events in their lives. Don't believe me? Take a closer look at the people you know around you, analyze their fates.

Love and jealousy

He loves, but periodically insults and humiliates the woman he loves, why? Yes, the great passion of one of the spouses is not always good for the psychological climate in the family. The balance of emotional relationships is disrupted. Where there is love, there is fear of losing a loved one, and jealousy arises. Any word or remark of a wife can be misinterpreted by a jealous husband. Repressed feelings will sooner or later result in the form of unfounded accusations and insults that humiliate the spouse.

Character and behavior of the wife

Not only men with their own difficulties are to blame for quarrels in the family. Beautiful ladies are sometimes masterfully capable of causing their husband’s aggression with their behavior. Constant dissatisfaction, grumbling and whining, demonstrating a bad mood and silence (they say, guess for yourself what is wrong with me or with us), ignorance or unwillingness to take into account the characteristics of one’s other half can cause swearing and insults from the husband. His answer is adequate to his wife's behavior. And what about the stubbornness demonstrated by a woman in insisting on her opinion and the causeless hysterics they throw? He simply does not have enough arguments or the ability to insist on his own. Well, why not a reason for a verbal fight?

There are many more reasons why men humiliate and insult women. But what to do in these situations? What advice can you give?

• Dear girls! Take your choice of life partner seriously. If during the courtship period insults or hints of humiliation take place, even in a playful form, things will get worse from there: do not cherish the dream that you will be able to re-educate your loved one.
• Once rudeness is demonstrated towards you, as a rule, it is repeated and becomes constant. Therefore, you cannot tolerate and remain silent; you must react: discuss and find with your partner the reason for the rude behavior, but only in a calm situation. Never respond to abuse with abuse.
• Dear ladies! If you are being treated rudely by your life partners, don't be afraid to look within yourself for the reasons. After all, we are not always angels.
• Work on your relationships constantly. You can destroy everything easily and quickly, but creation requires strength and patience.

Very often verbal aggression is accompanied by physical violence. The relationship between victim and persecutor develops. But this is a topic for another article.

How to deal with aggression

We often experience bouts of aggression towards people around us. It occurs in response to irritation caused by various reasons. The result of aggression is quarrels and damaged relationships with loved ones. In men it manifests itself more strongly, in women it is much weaker. There are people who cannot start or end the day without having a row with their loved ones.

Psychologists distinguish between natural aggression, which is a personality trait, and situational aggression, which is a person’s response to an unpleasant situation. Each of us has a certain level of aggression: some have more, others less. People who have a high level of aggressiveness are very difficult to communicate with. For a family, such a person is a real punishment: at any moment he is ready to find fault with any little thing, start a quarrel and thereby throw out his irritation. He is like a vampire, feeding on the positive energy of the people around him. But such people achieve more in life than those who have below average aggressiveness. A low level of aggressiveness is characteristic of people who are spineless and incapable of fighting.

Situational aggressiveness does not always arise, but only when the level of irritation goes off scale or in response to threatening circumstances. But whatever the aggressiveness, it is destructive for marital relationships, as it gives rise to... What to do if you are a person of tough character? Are you ready to break down for any reason? Realizing this, are you trying to control yourself? It is impossible to restrain aggressiveness all the time, and it is harmful to health. The causes of many diseases lie in this. Thus, it is necessary to get rid of aggression, but the question arises about acceptable methods.

Passive methods Relieving aggression is suitable not only for women, but also for men.

You feel bad. You are ready to “tear and throw” everything you meet on the way. But stop! Think about what it will be like for the people around you.

• Advice for women: speak out, complain and cry. Really, cry! The therapeutic effect of tears can hardly be overestimated. Nature designed us this way: after crying, we feel relief. Tears remove enzymes that accompany stressful conditions, they cleanse the soul and wash away unpleasant experiences.
• Talk to your spouse about troubles and problems. At this moment there is no need to ask or give any advice: just talk and listen. This will help you calm down and find solutions to problems.
• Do not try to relieve irritation and aggressiveness with alcohol. The consequences can be unpredictable. More often, alcohol weakens self-control and pushes a person to rash and dangerous actions.
• Avoid the kitchen and refrigerator if you are in an aggressive state. You will not notice how you will empty all your food supplies. Don't eat your negative emotions. Aggression and unresolved problems will remain, plus extra pounds on the sides.

Active methods Removal of aggressiveness is based on physical activity.

• It is known that adrenaline, which causes tension and aggression, is well produced during physical activity. The more work, the harder it is, the better. Having done a good job in the garden or at the dacha, after general cleaning of the house, you will feel peaceful.
• Find time to exercise. Those sports that involve confrontation and movement are good (sports games, wrestling, boxing, and so on).
• Cyclic sports, which include repeated elementary movements and exercises (walking, light jogging, swimming, walking) are good for health and relieve stress.
• Watching television broadcasts of competitions can give vent to aggression. After all, watching the athletes, cheering for them, you experience the same emotions as the athletes. Your muscles involuntarily tense and start working. This is how excess adrenaline is “burned” in the blood.
• Hobbies such as fishing, hunting, mushroom picking bring a lot of pleasure and perfectly relieve aggression.
• Detective novels and horror films, thrillers, computer games help get rid of aggressiveness.

You can come up with or find dozens of ways to relieve irritation and aggressiveness and thereby protect yourself and your family from unnecessary quarrels.